love

Aug. 19th, 2006 01:09 pm
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A friend in a locked post writes about different languages' words for love and friend - made me reply thus:

There is a beautiful word in Dutch (which an old flame taught me) that means you feel a love for something so intense that - and this is pretty much what the King James Bible used, too! - your bowels twist within you. From the way he used it, it's less about romantic love than that sudden wrench you get over a beloved child, or a landscape . . . Nevertheless - interesting to know how English limits us (now that our bowels no longer yearn like they used to in 1605)!

(And, yes, I've forgotten the actual word - though I can still see his face and eloquent gestures in the restaurant candlelight . . . Anyone know it?)

Date: 2006-08-19 07:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] msmemory.livejournal.com
The French make a similar distinction between ami and copain. A copain is a buddy or chum, but an ami(e) is a close and intimate friend.

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